eleven.

relationships;

they come and go,

some you keep and others you don't.

it's life right?

there's no easy way to put this, but when you are young and naive, the world isn't all what it should be. you get into a relationship hoping for it to last, but it doesn't always turn out like that. it's all part of a growing experiance. also there comes a time for mistakes,and you learn from them.

your young and they don't last, because of so many factors. also a relationship shouldn't involve work, because it should be fun. and if it leads to work then you aren't going to have that fun.

or that when you are in a relationship its all fun at the start, then it starts getting sour because you see too much of them, and therefore it causes you to work at keeping it, rather than enjoying it.

now i'm no pessimist, but you are bound to get your heart broken many times, over the course of your life until the day you find the one you want to be with. and you don't get to chose where the heart goes, you just follow it.

i guess it's hard to let go of that one, that you planned [mentally] your life together with that person. and it sucks, and i know because i've been there. then if you think of some memory or w.e of what you had with that person its like a constant pain, or a reminder of what you lost.

but for the most part, i think having these relationships, help you grow as a person, no matter what path you decide for yourself, growing is a part of life, and i don't need to be told that, because it happens.

it just hurts when you put so much time into something, to have it blow up in your face.

yes, i am only sixteen, and i haven't lived through much of my life, but i'm saying this from the perspective of what my mother has told me time and time again.